2023 Daily Lenten Journey – Day 36

We have arrived at the final week of Great Lent. Although Pascha is still two weeks away, this final week of Great Lent is setting up the final preparations for Holy Week and then Pascha. We are finished hearing the promises from God. From here on we will see how our human ancestors responded to God’s promise, so that we can learn from their journey. Remember…..this about improving our journey, not just learning history.

The first lesson of this week sets the tone. Isaac wanted to bless his oldest son, but the younger brother working in cooperation with his mother, stole his brother’s blessing. This establishes a history of struggle between the two families. The same struggle that plays out today between every family. One looks to another and is jealous of God’s blessings.

When Isaac was old and his eyes were dim so that he could not see, he called Esau his older son, and said to him, “My son”; and he answered, “Here I am.”  He said, “Behold, I am old; I do not know the day of my death.  Now then, take your weapons, your quiver and your bow, and go out to the field, and hunt game for me, and prepare for me savory food, such as I love, and bring it to me that I may eat; that I may bless you before I die.”  Now Rebekah was listening when Isaac spoke to his son Esau. So when Esau went to the field to hunt for game and bring it, Rebekah said to her son Jacob, “I heard your father speak to your brother Esau,  ‘Bring me game, and prepare for me savory food, that I may eat it, and bless you before the LORD before I die.’  Now therefore, my son, obey my word as I command you.  Go to the flock, and fetch me two good kids, that I may prepare from them savory food for your father, such as he loves; and you shall bring it to your father to eat, so that he may bless you before he dies.”  But Jacob said to Rebekah his mother, “Behold, my brother Esau is a hairy man, and I am a smooth man.  Perhaps my father will feel me, and I shall seem to be mocking him, and bring a curse upon myself and not a blessing.”  His mother said to him, “Upon me be your curse, my son; only obey my word, and go, fetch them to me.”  So he went and took them and brought them to his mother; and his mother prepared savory food, such as his father loved.  Then Rebekah took the best garments of Esau her older son, which were with her in the house, and put them on Jacob her younger son; and the skins of the kids she put upon his hands and upon the smooth part of his neck; and she gave the savory food and the bread, which she had prepared, into the hand of her son Jacob. So he went in to his father, and said, “My father”; and he said, “Here I am; who are you, my son?”  Jacob said to his father, “I am Esau your first-born. I have done as you told me; now sit up and eat of my game, that you may bless me.”  But Isaac said to his son, “How is it that you have found it so quickly, my son?” He answered, “Because the LORD your God granted me success.”  Then Isaac said to Jacob, “Come near, that I may feel you, my son, to know whether you are really my son Esau or not.”  So Jacob went near to Isaac his father, who felt him and said, “The voice is Jacob’s voice, but the hands are the hands of Esau.”  And he did not recognize him, because his hands were hairy like his brother Esau’s hands; so he blessed him.  He said, “Are you really my son Esau?” He answered, “I am.”  Then he said, “Bring it to me, that I may eat of my son’s game and bless you.” So he brought it to him, and he ate; and he brought him wine, and he drank.  Then his father Isaac said to him, “Come near and kiss me, my son.”  So he came near and kissed him; and he smelled the smell of his garments, and blessed him, and said, “See, the smell of my son is as the smell of a field which the LORD has blessed!  May God give you of the dew of heaven, and of the fatness of the earth, and plenty of grain and wine.  Let peoples serve you, and nations bow down to you. Be lord over your brothers, and may your mother’s sons bow down to you. Cursed be every one who curses you, and blessed be every one who blesses you!” As soon as Isaac had finished blessing Jacob, when Jacob had scarcely gone out from the presence of Isaac his father, Esau his brother came in from his hunting.  He also prepared savory food, and brought it to his father. And he said to his father, “Let my father arise, and eat of his son’s game, that you may bless me.”  His father Isaac said to him, “Who are you?” He answered, “I am your son, your first-born, Esau.”  Then Isaac trembled violently, and said, “Who was it then that hunted game and brought it to me, and I ate it all before you came, and I have blessed him? – Yes, and he shall be blessed.”  When Esau heard the words of his father, he cried out with an exceedingly great and bitter cry, and said to his father, “Bless me, even me also, O my father!”  But he said, “Your brother came with guile, and he has taken away your blessing.”  Esau said, “Is he not rightly named Jacob? For he has supplanted me these two times. He took away my birthright; and behold, now he has taken away my blessing.” Then he said, “Have you not reserved a blessing for me?”  Isaac answered Esau, “Behold, I have made him your lord, and all his brothers I have given to him for servants, and with grain and wine I have sustained him. What then can I do for you, my son?”  Esau said to his father, “Have you but one blessing, my father? Bless me, even me also, O my father.” And Esau lifted up his voice and wept.  Then Isaac his father answered him: “Behold, away from the fatness of the earth shall your dwelling be, and away from the dew of heaven on high.  By your sword you shall live, and you shall serve your brother; but when you break loose you shall break his yoke from your neck.”  Now Esau hated Jacob because of the blessing with which his father had blessed him, and Esau said to himself, “The days of mourning for my father are approaching; then I will kill my brother Jacob.”

Genesis 27.1-41

Jacob was jealous of Esau, and Esau was jealous of Jacob. Neither was satisfied with what their father had given them. Sound familiar? Too often we look at each other with jealous eyes rather than gratitude to God. Does it really matter why or how someone else has been blessed by God?  It shouldn’t matter.

I invite you to spend the final week of Great Lent fighting the temptation to compare your blessings with the blessings of other. Fight the temptation to think what was meant for you for stolen by someone else. Even though Esau’s blessing was stolen, Isaac promised him he would eventually prosper. Even though we struggle, God has promised that we will eventually prosper.

Esau moved on and eventually found success and made a name for himself. He ultimately didn’t ‘need’ his father blessing to be successful. It could be that Jacob would not have found success if not for his stolen blessing.

For those who love the Lord, blessings will come. Sometimes they come easily and sometimes with hard work, but they always come. Life isn’t a matter of who gets what from God. We all get what we need.